Top 5 Jewish Wedding Traditions Explained
custom is rich in meaning, connecting the couple not only to one another but also to generations of Jewish tradition. Whether you are planning your own Jewish wedding, attending one, or simply curious about the traditions, this post will walk you through the five most beloved and meaningful Jewish wedding customs — and how they can inspire you today.
The Chuppah – A Symbol of the New Home
The chuppah, or wedding canopy, is one of the most iconic elements of the Jewish wedding. It consists of a cloth or tallit (prayer shawl) stretched over four poles, open on all sides. The chuppah represents the couple’s new home together — a place of hospitality, peace, and protection.
In many weddings, the chuppah is decorated with flowers, embroidery, or meaningful symbols like Jerusalem or Tree of Life designs. Some couples choose to use a family heirloom tallit or a custom-designed canopy that they can later display in their home as a keepsake.
The Ring Ceremony – Simplicity and Unity
During the wedding, the groom (and in many egalitarian ceremonies, the bride as well) gives a ring to their partner, declaring:
"Harei at mekudeshet li b'taba'at zo k'dat Moshe v'Yisrael"
(“Behold, you are betrothed to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel.”)
The ring is traditionally simple and unadorned — a circle without end, symbolizing eternal love and unity.
If you’re shopping for Jewish wedding rings, look for plain bands in gold or silver, or choose rings engraved with Hebrew verses or blessings.
The Ketubah – The Marriage Contract
The ketubah is a beautifully written marriage contract that outlines the couple’s responsibilities to one another. Historically, it provided legal protection for the bride, but today it also represents the mutual commitments of love, respect, and partnership.
Many couples choose artistic ketubot, hand-decorated with calligraphy, floral designs, or Jewish symbols like the Lion of Judah. The ketubah is often framed and displayed in the couple’s home as a daily reminder of their vows.
The Seven Blessings (Sheva Brachot)
Under the chuppah, seven blessings are recited over a cup of wine. These Sheva Brachot praise God, celebrate creation, and express hopes for the couple’s joy, harmony, and future together.
The blessings can be recited by the officiant, family members, or friends — adding a personal and communal touch to the ceremony.
Including wine in the ritual reminds us of the sanctity and sweetness of the moment. A kiddush cup used at the wedding may become a treasured family heirloom.
Breaking the Glass – A Moment of Reflection
Perhaps the most famous of all Jewish wedding traditions is the breaking of the glass. The groom (or both partners) stomps on a glass, shattering it underfoot.
This act has many layers of meaning:
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It reminds us of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, even in our happiest moments.
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It symbolizes the fragility of human relationships, urging us to treat our bond with care and respect.
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It signals the joyful end of the ceremony and the start of celebration, often met with a rousing shout of “Mazel Tov!”
Many couples keep the broken glass shards, later setting them into a mezuzah case, picture frame, or keepsake box.
Jewish Wedding Judaica – Make Your Day Meaningful
At Amen Judaica, we offer a beautiful selection of items to enrich your Jewish wedding:
Custom chuppah canopies
Hand-decorated ketubot
Simple and elegant wedding rings
Kiddush cups for Sheva Brachot
Mezuzah cases made with your wedding glass shards
Whether you’re planning your wedding or searching for a meaningful gift, our handcrafted Judaica brings tradition and beauty to your celebration.
Explore our Jewish wedding collection today and make your simcha unforgettable!